8/05/2008

Variety By "Bacheh Bad"

Ferdowsi's Bijan o Manijeh on stage in Tehran. Photo by Shahrooz Nabati for Iranian.com. Take a look at those costumes! I so miss Iranian theater. It's one thing we don't see enough of in these parts of the world.
I have been a "bacheh bad," neglecting my beloved blogs for many days now. I thought if I wrote that I was enundated with responsibilities and a little under the weather, I would encourage all to say nice things to me and I didn't want that. Bogzarim keh you guys are always very kind and nice to me, no matter what I say! My blues followed me from last week into this week and I was really mad that I couldn't shake them off. The cloud seems to be lifting now, and here I am!
My kids are so sweet! My younger son keeps telling me that he is concerned to see me working away into late hours of the night and waking up early to do some more work. It's gotten to the point where now when I hear him coming, I get up and go greet him so that he won't worry about me too much. Of course he sees right through me! He said tonight he wants to take me out to dinner soon. My older son and I chatted for a few minutes today about his leaving the house soon. He said he won't be that far and that he'll come visit and camp out here every chance he gets! I agreed but added that it just won't be the same not having him around the house all the time. And there we were, in the state of dread-excitement that the two of us seem to be hanging in these days.
My calendar seems to have become full again for August and September, with something to do every weekend. I get exhausted just looking at all the commitments I have made for myself again, even though I had promised myself I would save some weekends for chilling out. I am really excited about a fundraising event I will be organizing with a friend in August. I'm also excited about the Namjoo concert which will be happening in September. In September we will also have a family reunion around a family wedding in Southern California. Now that's something to look forward to and to be happy about! I'll get to see my brothers and their families, yippee!
My friend says a man she thought about seriously has been acting strange and remote, possibly wanting to end the relationship. My heart breaks for her pain, but I'm relieved they are figuring this out now, as opposed to later. I told her she should look for a guy who would think and act honored and delighted to have her in his life, because she is such a special woman. I hope she doesn't think I just said that to please her and to soothe her pains. I think everybody deserves to feel loved, respected, cherished, and honored in a relationship. Anything less than that isn't good enough, especially for my very special friend.
I will go to my third Persian Poetry class tomorrow night with Dr. Zari Taheri. She is teaching us about Nezami's Eskandar Nameh. Don't you think it bizarre that Nezami and other Iranian poets and authors have such a positive view of Eskandar (Alexander), the man who was responsible for so much destruction in Iranian history?! She is explaining that part of that positive light surrounding Eskandar in Persian literature is that Persians didn't like to say they were conquerred or defeated by an ordinary man, so they built him up to be a hero! I will write something about what I learn in that class when it's over next week.
Have a good Wednesday everybody. I promise to start posting regularly. I have missed this too much!

5 comments:

Daisy said...

Salam Nazy jon,

Thank God you are back. Every time I checked your blog for a new post and I couldn't see one, was like knocking on your door and no one answer the door.
I love to drink my coffee while reading your blog:)
I hope you manage to write everyday while you take care of all your commitments.
Have a wonderful day- a big hug

nasim said...

Nazy joon,

I was starting to get worried if you are ok. you did not write for about a week! anyway, I am glad you are back :)

Anonymous said...

me too!khosh aamadi khanoomi..


Marzieh

Parinaz said...

Welcome back Nazy jan; It feels so good sitting here and read your new and old memories. Sommwhat I am addicted to it!
Keep writing and keep enjoying your time with family.
Hope you are all doing fine.

مسعود said...

سلام
به این شعر عامیانه توجه کن:
تو آنی
که آنی توانی
جهانی چپانی
ته استکانی
حالا وصف الحال توست،چند مطلب را توی یک پست جا میدهی که هر کدام مستقلا موضوع یک پست علیحده اند.
چرا نمیدهی این دو برومند هر کدام یک پست به فارسی بنویسند ببینیم از فضل مادر چه حاصلی بر داشته اند؟
بیا سوته دلان گرد هم آییم،آن دوستت که از همسرش جدا شد،اینهم که به آخر خط رسیده،اشک تو هم که دم مشکته.
بگذریم،مورخ و ادیب بزرگ ما آقای باستانی پاریزی می گوید اسکندر پس از شکست سپاه ایران دستور داد افسران و سربازانش با زنان ایرانی ازدواج کنند و این خود در آنزمان قابل تآمل است.محمود افغان هم ایران را تصرف کرد ،چرا کسی او را بزرگ نکرد؟